Know Where Your Relationship Stands
Gain a clear, structured understanding of your relationship, identify what matters most right now, and discover the next steps to support and strengthen it over time.
Move beyond assumptions and surface-level conversations with guided insight into how your relationship is functioning, where you are aligned, and where there is room for growth.
How the Relationship Check-In Works
The relationship check-in is designed to help you understand where your relationship stands, what support fits best, and how things shift over time.
Start with a Free Baseline Assessment
Create an account and complete your first relationship check-in for free. This establishes a baseline, giving you a clear picture of where your relationship stands and what may need attention first.
Complete the Assessment on Your Own
You can begin on your own without needing to start as a couple. Complete the assessment individually first, then choose whether to add your partner now or invite them later when the time feels right.
Answer the Sections That Are Relevant
The assessment is shaped around your relationship stage and situation. Relevant sections are included, while others can be skipped, helping create a more focused and personalised picture.
Get Aligned to the Right Pathway
Once your baseline assessment is complete, your results help identify the pathway, support, and resources that best fit your current stage, needs, and priorities.
Link with Your Partner for Combined Results
If your partner also completes the relationship check-in, your profiles can be linked to bring your results together. This gives you a shared view of alignment, differences, strengths, and areas that may need support within the relationship overall.
Through your combined results, you can:
- see where you are aligned
- notice where your experiences differ
- identify strengths in the relationship
- recognise areas that may need more support
This creates a clearer shared understanding of where your relationship stands.
Return to the Assessment Over Time
After purchasing a core product or service, a free 6-month subscription gives you access to 2 check-ins. These help you track your relationship over time, recognise progress, and receive updated recommendations for what to focus on next.
These check-ins help you:
- track relationship health over time
- recognise progress that has been made
- identify areas that still need attention
- receive updated recommendations for next steps
After that, continued access to check-ins requires a subscription or the purchase of another core product or service.
Find the Right Pathway for Your Relationship
Every relationship is at a different stage and facing different questions. Your relationship check-in helps identify where your relationship currently sits, what matters most right now, and which pathway will best support your next steps.
Each pathway is designed to meet your relationship where it is and guide you toward the support that is most relevant at this stage.
The Self Pathway
Understand Yourself​
Explore how your personal history, patterns, and expectations deeply and consistently shape the way you show up in relationships.
The Building Pathway
Develop a New Relationship
Build understanding, communication, and emotional safety intentionally and steadily as your relationship begins to grow.
The Commitment Pathway
Prepare for Marriage
Strengthen the foundations of your partnership and explore the key areas couples should discuss before commitment.
The Sustaining Pathway
Strengthen Your Relationship
Reconnect, improve communication, and continue intentionally strengthening and developing your relationship over time together consistently.
The Repair Pathway
Repair and Rebuild
Address conflict patterns, rebuild trust, and repair areas of strain in the relationship with intention, clarity, and consistency.
The Crisis Pathway
Navigate Crisis
Stabilise the relationship and work through significant disruption or uncertainty with care, support, and structure.
Moving Forward with Clarity and Direction
Once you complete the assessment, you move from understanding your relationship to knowing what to do next. Your results help direct your attention to the areas that need support most and connect you with the pathway and resources that fit your current stage.
As you continue, future check-ins help you see how your relationship is changing and what support may be needed next.
From here, you can:
Understand your relationship more clearly
Identify the pathway that fits your stage and needs
Use guided resources to work on specific areas
Begin conversations with greater direction and understanding
Track change over time through check-ins
Receive updated recommendations as your relationship evolves
Find Your Place in the Continuum
Take the assessment to establish your baseline, understand your relationship more clearly, and begin the pathway designed for your current stage.