The “Expectations of Partnership and Marriage” Guide is for couples who want to better understand what they each expect from marriage and life together. It offers a thoughtful way to explore the ideas, hopes, and assumptions that each of you may bring into the relationship.
Through guided questions and prompts, you will reflect on what partnership and marriage mean to you. You will also explore whether your expectations feel similar or different. The guide does not suggest that there is one “right” way to do marriage. Instead, it helps you understand each other more clearly.
What You Will Explore
The guide helps you think about the kind of relationship you want to create together. You will explore topics such as roles, responsibilities, communication, support, family, intimacy, conflict, and future plans.
You will also reflect on where your expectations come from. Some may come from your family, culture, past experiences, or personal values. The guide encourages you to talk about these influences and how they shape what you hope for in marriage.
Some expectations may already feel clear and shared. Others may surprise you or need more discussion. By exploring these differences now, you can reduce misunderstandings and build a stronger foundation for your future together.
Who Is This Guide For?
This guide is ideal for couples who want to have more open conversations about marriage and partnership. It is especially helpful for couples who want to understand each other better, feel more aligned, and enter marriage with greater clarity and confidence.
